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In order to have a successful conversation with others, it is important to focus on the person you are talking to. Put your phone away or any other device that may interrupt the conversation. Ask questions that are open-ended and encourage the person to tell you more about themselves.
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Listen actively and respond thoughtfully to the other person’s responses. Be mindful of your body language, making sure to maintain good eye contact to show interest and sincerity. Open and inviting body language is a great way to make the person feel comfortable. Avoid interrupting the conversation, as it can be seen as disrespectful. If you have an idea or response, take a moment to think about it and wait for the appropriate pause.
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Speak clearly and concisely to avoid miscommunication. Use examples or anecdotes to reinforce your points and make the conversation more interesting. Respect differences: People may have different points of view, and that’s fine. Don’t be judgmental and try to find common ground.
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Use positive language: Frame your ideas in a positive way and choose words that encourage understanding. Avoid sarcasm or negative language that could lead to misinterpretation. Be willing to learn: Approach conversations with a desire to learn from others and be willing to change your mind if new information is brought to you. Follow up: If the conversation involves plans or future actions, make sure to follow up on them. This shows that you are reliable and builds trust. Know when to end:
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Be aware of the other person’s time and cues, and if the conversation is coming to an end, gracefully end it. Show appreciation for the conversation: A simple “thank you for sharing” goes a long way.